I am hiding in my bedroom for the rest of the night!!   I gave Tommy a bath and got him ready for bed.  He is suppose to go to bed at 8:30.   At 8:15 I went to my room with my book and laptop.  I figure hubby can handle watching Erik and Tommy.  He jsut needs to get Tommy into bed and Erik into the shower.   If I stay up it will all be expected that I do it all.  I think Hubby should be in charge some…though it makes me nervous.  His idea of in charge involves Erik watching Tommy for him and he goes to the computer room.  But nothing too bad could happen to Tommy in 15 minutes??  Right???